“Can anyone imagine a more terrible spiritual torment than Mary’s compassion during the crucifixion of her Son? His fear and affliction were a sword that pierced her heart, as Simeon had prophesied at the presentation of Jesus in the temple. If our Lord Himself in Gethsemani found the prospect of His sufferings so unbearable that it wrung drops of blood from Him and His soul convulsed His sacred body, then this gives us an image of the extent to which Mary’s spiritual pain affected her body and caused her martyrdom. Mary’s heart and soul must have melted away as she stood beneath the cross of her Son and when at last the lifeless body was placed upon her lap” (Cardinal Newman).
For Mary, too, the darkness was lightened on Golgotha when she recognized her last sacrificial duty: to offer up the most precious of all precious gifts, the Price of Redemption which also belonged to her as her own possession, and to have it brutally taken away from her. The Crucified who hung there before her eyes was the spotless Lamb of sacrifice, to whom she had given the pure and beautiful Body that was now so disfigured. In the harmony of His disposition and spiritual gifts, in His strength and gentleness, He is the ideal image of human perfection; she saw this miracle unfold and extended to Him a maternal hand as He walked the paths of His childhood. And now that He has reached the state of magnificent manhood, she gives Him away as an offering, says her Yes to the immolation of this precious sacrifice, freely consents to this loss, which is unimaginably bitter to her. Thus, she accomplishes a heretofore unprecedented regal act of heroic greatness: in union with the King of Sorrows, she turns sorrow itself to the greater glory of God, for the salvation of the world.